Suksy's Pensieve

In continuance of my previous post "Relationships", I got a huge comment from a friend of mine (Sudheer) which I did not publish coz I wanted the same to come as a blogpost. So, here goes. First the comment and then, my views on the same: Hey suksi, Liked ur interpretation on relationships and memories and the corresponding pain that follows as a natural corollary... I feel that it is in our very basic desires that make us choose people as either our friends or hubby's let me explain: If " I " as a person likes biking " I " will go in search of people who do biking and try to build a relation so that " I "can get some one to understand 'my' thoughts or try find one who becomes a medium of expression for " Me ", a thought which gives " Me " pleasure and not that the other person likes biking or birding. It is here where " expectations" start building up - like " I " woul...

Here I come with open hands, Approaching people with a request to embrace me boldly, Yet people try to run away from me, Wonder why they are scared, though I am a certainty. I'm so mean-minded, I don't go to all, I don't accept people who come to me, yet I approach them all, I want stuff to happen my way, Wonder why I am like this, though I'm a certainty. There are a very few people who come to me, As openly and friendly as I approach them, And I even accept them, whom I don't want to come to me Wonder why people are impatient, though I'm a certainty. I don't want any agents working for me, Nor do I want to cause pain and agony, I keep trying to make people accept me, Wonder why they don't understand, though I'm a certainty Yet there are agents working for me, Oh hell, why do are these people so inhumane, Coz they cause a lot of pain and agony, Wonder why they act like this, though I'm...

Been quite a while since I posted... No, not that I had a lot of work.. No, not even that I did not have any topics to blog upon, and No, definitely not that I wanted to take a break from blogging.. Just that I was too lazy to sit and compose a post. I have been a part (again, just a part) of many discussions related to relations / relationships / how to maintain them /  what goes wrong / why it hurts etc etc... and thought it would be best if I do a post on the same. A friend of mine has started blogging coz of my advice. One of her blogposts is about having expectations in relationships. I've always been of the opinion that "EXPECTATIONS LEAD TO DISAPPOINTMENTS, SURPRISES GIVE YOU HAPPINESS". Another friend of mine just broke up after an affair of almost two years... and it was kind of tough for me to even speak to her coz I went through all the emotions yet again coz of my breakup after three years! But, I guess I succeeded in getting her back to normalcy. Ano...