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Happiness

Happiness is a state of mind.. it is not getting your desires fulfilled, it is not fulfilling someone's desires. It is not getting all the help that you want.. it is not helping someone in need... it is just a state of mind.

You can be happy whenever you want to.. even in the worst of situations. It is not time-bound. It is not situation bound.. it is again.. just a state of mind.

You can be happy wherever you want to.. even in the depths of hell... it is not place bound, it is not with whom you are.. it is again.. just a state of mind.

Happiness is in a chocolate.. it is in a ball game.. it is in a ballroom dance.. it is even in a bike ride or a long walk in the hot sun.

Happiness is in a tweet, in reading someone's FB post, in listening to a song that you love.. in listening to some music.

Happiness, however, is not CAUSED by these happenings.. it is caused by your mind.. it is caused by you!

Suppose, I stay hungry for a day... my folks might not be happy.. but I might be!
Suppose, I go for a long walk and be successful in losing weight... my folks might be happy.. but I might not be!

We just find ways of pointing out to objects which bring about happiness.. we are finding ways to point out situations that bring about happiness... we are finding ways to commit actions which bring about happiness.

I am happy.... that is all I want to think about.. and I will be happy.

Just like saying the word "Smile" brings a smile on your lips, the same way.. "feeling" happy or even thinking that you are happy, will cause you happiness..

Go.. think about it.. and be HAPPY!!! 
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