Caution: Mature and explicit content.. No offence meant to anyone!
I was reading the Times of India today when I came across this piece of news. C'mon.. this is heights of being stupid!
If we still have people like that activist, we will never open our minds for advancing and India would still remain a "Developing Country".
All the idiotic thoughts and feelings that are being expressed and advocated by the political parties and by the religious fanatics are all crap and bullshit!
What is wrong if we advocate sex education to students in schools? What is wrong when telling out the truth that many girls would not be virgins till people marry them or that virginity is not a great thing!? What if someone prays with the footwear on? When the Vedas themselves advocate that GOD is omnipresent, isn't it foolish to remove the footwear only coz we enter the temple? Going by the logic, we should not wear footwear et all anywhere coz GOD is everywhere!
Will anyone bother abt checking if a man is a virgin or if he shags everyday or he ogles at girls or he fantasizes abt every female that he comes across? Just coz a girl has the hymen membrane which gets torn or stretches while having sexual intercourse leading to release of blood and a guy does not have it, it should not be assumed that the girl is not a virgin if there is no bleeding after sexual intercourse.
What would be the test of virginity with males? Will it be the amount of ejaculation? Or the time till which he will hold back his sperm from ejaculating? Or will it be the time for how long he would be able to retain his erection? Or will he have a premature ejaculation during his "first night" which is assumed to be the occasion for both man and woman to shed their inhibitions and have sex.. or is it known as making love??
What is the concept of first night? Just coz a marriage has happened and you get to spend the night with someone new in ur bedroom (assuming that the girl comes to the guy's place after marriage.. being a male chauvinist here), it does not mean that you use it to deflower her or you have sex with her.. So, in case a far off relative comes home and is forced to share your bedroom, will you fuck him/her??
If you go through the highly acclaimed works of Sanskrit, all the works are completely immersed in vulgarity. The poets and authors would give such a vivid description of a female or a male and their conjunction that there is no need for you to watch any movie or see any picture to get excited. And it is these works that are being advocated as "text books" or "study material" to students. And if one wants to rename the subject of study or specialise in this subject of study under the name of Sex Education, you are opposing to that! Isn't it stupid enough on your own part?
I was recently confessing to a friend that I don't want to have sex, but will not stop from having a go at her. She asked me what I actually meant by that meaningless and seemingly idiotic statement? Now, thinking back on stuff, It sounded so silly!
I do not have any qualms to admit that I shag and also to admit that I am a virgin, more by choice than by chance! I also admit that I want to have an intercourse with the person whom I have in my mind and not with anyone else. And If I do not get that person? You might ask. The answer is simple.. the future is as UNCERTAIN as the thoughts I get in my mind! ;-)
Though, all these days, just after quitting from my first job in a BPO and even in that job, when someone asked me during the ice breaker session whether I am a virgin and laughed out aloud that I was, and post that too, I have been claiming to glory that I am experienced in sex! However, It was quite a lot of days (but while I was working in the BPO itself) before I found myself a girl, became physical with her, and then, got this thought that, "well, if I expect a girl to be a virgin when I make love to her, won't the girl expect the same from me?" So, ditched all possible chances to make love or have sex and remained a virgin! :-)
Whatever it might be, due to a few idiotic people advocating their thoughts, My thoughts and feelings will not change. I will lead my life the way I want, being a virgin or not, having sex or not, getting married or not.. and Blogging without any bloody worries about any screwball who might think that this blog post is "anti-" something and would want to get this post banned or get blogger banned from India (As it happened with Orkut a few months earlier!) :-)
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